it seems like formality diminishes with time which causes love to diminish as well.. as time passes by, u will start to realise that the person you always hold in awe is just but a normal being.. no wonder they say that in order to salvage a r/s, the r/s must progress to the next level.. it is similar to working in a company.. u work hard day in day out.. if you are getting the same pay and the same position after a few years in the same company, chances of you staying in the same company is very small.. rewards of pay increment and progression is very important to maintain the r/s between the empolyee and the employer..

i realised that when someone is more confortable with you.. the person will start to tell you every single thing.. sadly certain thing just put the person down.. sort of strip off the "wow" in that person..

i really admire those couples who can stay together till they breath their last.. especially those without kids..

i really think that kids keep the marriage going.. the couple will try to salvage the r/s for the sake of the kids.. rather than seeing this as a sacrifice of the kids, we should see that the kids are the good force that prevents couple from divorcing on impulse.. kids makes them re-consider their decision and most of the time, after some serious consideration, they will start to realise they still do not have to retort to divorce.. vows are supposed to be kept..

when u first get to know someone.. u will be very polite and nice.. after knowing the person for a very long time.. u will start to take certain thing for granted and not be that nice anymore.. as more time passes.. u will start to take all thing for granted..

haiz.. this is life..

despite this, everyone still wants to get married because everyone is scared of being lonely.. the feeling of lonliness is unbearable.....