for better or worse.. in health and sickness..

some typical wedding vows..

when i was very very young, i felt that divorce is a very wrong thing to do because couple has the responsibility to put in tremendous effort to keep the marriage work because couple choose to get married to each other and no one is forcing them to..

but now, i realised that human are becoming more and more undesirable.. guys becoming more and more of a visual creature and they choose partner not with their brain but with the lower half of their body. on the other hand, gals becoming more and more of a manipulator.. and when they find a better catch, they will just abandon their present one and leave for the better on.. hence, the probability of a blissful union of two RIGHT person tends to zero.. becos the union is due to those superficial reasons..

however when a marriage failed.. divorce might not be a easy way out because you seems to have to be accountable to everyone in the world.. especially, ur parents&relatives, his parents&relatives.. in my opinion, children seems to be the greatest hurdle.. because before divorce, the couple has to break the news to the child and then allow him to choose who he want to follow.. the immature child, who only knows the world as cinderella and beauty&the beast, will definitely beg and plead his parents not to file for divorce.. probably he suceeds.. despite this little sucess, his parents' pain&suffering would be prolonged.. and over time, it would snow-balled into greater pain and in the end, his mum, his dad and him will all be living in a world of pain&suffering.. needless to say, the little child who then grows up to be a big adult will then realise that he is the ultimate culprit for all these tragedies..